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Met a great guy at 49 and we're still together at Not sure about the 'soulmate' stuff, but it's still good and takes work to stay that way.
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I think the soulmate thing is great fantasy, and maybe it really happens that way, but I can't live my life indulging in magical thinking. OP, my fog is to give up the 'search' for someone and fall in love with something. It's good practice for opening the heart after damaging relationships.
My passion for rock art led me to my lovely partner. I was able to see him because I wasn't looking with my eyes, but with my heart. Romantics will know what I mean. R77, I really hope you've managed to be friends.
Has any one here ever found their true soulmate after 40?
It's both thrilling and tragic to find someone you connect with so much and yet cannot 'be' with. Is there any possibility?
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Also, I know this is not the answer you're looking for, but can you start a social group on FB or meetup. That's your problem right there.
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See, there is the rub. If it were a straight couple and the woman was unemployed that long no one would think its a flaw, they would call it a choice. And no, they are not all raising kids.
Gay men put way too much hetero-normative expectations on other gay men when it comes to rolls in the relationship.
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Looking for l8tr my soul mate perhaps literary soulmates differ from those in life I've seen people of all ages find lasting love. I don't think any of them describe it as finding their soul mate, which would indicate that there was only one true love they were destined to be with.
Sometimes love is wonderful with someone at a certain point in our lives and then it ends. Doesn't mean it was a bad relationship. My dad actually met someone at age 65, after two so-so marriages each lasting 20 years each. They've been very happy together for 15 years now. I also know two guys who met in their late 60s and are still gaga over each other 10 years later. Soulmates are a bullshit idea because they imply a kind of fate, which doesn't work in this age where we suspect there are multiple universes and no linear time.
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If it means the ideals of romantic love, that's an immature kind of love that soon burns out, but it's easily found. Had the love of my life when I was He got very sick with cancer and I lost him in at the age of I spent the next 5 years in a perpetual state of mourning not knowing what to do with myself.
I vowed to never get involved with anyone again let alone have sex. He wants me to move in with him and grow old with him. I love him very much ,not like my dead lover but enough to suffice. Think how much easier it would have been for any of us struggling in our 40's now struggling to find our "soulmate" admit I hate that term if the issue of gay marriage had once and for all been legalized and er put to bed across all 50 states 30 years ago?
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There are no soulmates there are just mates. I popularized the concept of "soulmates. A friend found love in his 50s a few years ago and they are getting married this summer.
I was 34, but he was We've been together for 24 years, married for five. Chris Rock put it best R4. There are no soulmates. I love ass gays!
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